James – “Laid” (1993): A Wild, Wickedly Honest Love Song of the ’90s

James – “Laid” (1993): A Wild, Wickedly Honest Love Song of the ’90s

“This bed is on fire with passionate love
The neighbors complain about the noises above…”
From the very first line, James grabs your attention—and never lets go. “Laid” isn’t your typical ’90s love song. It’s raunchy, raw, hilariously honest, and completely unforgettable.
 Too Hot for Radio, Too Good to Ignore
Released in 1993, “Laid” became the unexpected breakout hit for Manchester alt-rock band James. With its infectious hook and unapologetically provocative lyrics, the song quickly turned into an unofficial anthem for messy, passionate, over-the-tp relationships.
Gender Play, Lust, and Identity
“She only comes when she’s on top” — lyrics like this raised eyebrows and turned heads. But they also hinted at deeper themes of gender fluidity, identity, and sexual liberation. Frontman Tim Booth even famously wears a dress in the music video — a rebellious act in an era not known for its openness.
 From MTV to American Pie
With its punchy, two-minute runtime and catchy chorus, “Laid” became a favorite on college campuses and made its way into pop culture — most famously as the opening track in American Pie: The Wedding. The song remains a staple at parties, weddings, and chaotic road trips.